Personal Accountability

I recently attended a local gala, as I make it a point to support as many community efforts as I can. During the evening, I was offered an alcoholic beverage and politely declined. Someone then asked why they never see me drink.

The answer is simple.

This June marks 22 years since I last had a drink of alcohol.

On June 6, 2004, at 9:38 PM, I made a reckless and dangerous decision to drive after consuming alcohol, and I caused a collision. I take full responsibility for my actions and their consequences. There is no excuse for what I did.

Driving under the influence was a selfish decision that put innocent lives as well as my own at risk. I remain deeply remorseful for the shame and pain I brought upon myself, my family, and my community. You never truly understand how many people are affected by one poor, selfish, and dangerous decision until it is too late.

That night was a severe wake-up call.

Since then, I have taken meaningful and proactive steps to change my life and ensure nothing like that ever happens again. By the grace of God, I was given a second chance, and I have tried every day since to live in a way that is worthy of it.

For those who know me well, June 6 is a day of reflection and gratitude. It reminds me how far my personal accountability, humility, and commitment has taken me to better places in my life.

If there is one thing I hope people take from my story, it is this:

Make the right choice. Don’t drink and drive, and don’t ride with someone who has been drinking.
If you ever need a safe ride — call me. I will be there.